Firstly, just because you used some kits at school doesn't mean you're not really a beginner.
Englyshe As She Is Spoke is obviously not a drummer so ignore what they said
I bought a second hand CB drums drum kit from eBay for about $300 (very much a beginners kit) about nine years ago and have only recently decided I need a new one (I'm buying a mapex saturn for about $1500 - a LOT of saving up, but worth it)
The hardware on ANY drum kit, cheap, beginner or not, will NOT wear out really fast as long as you don't mistreat or abuse it.
With decent heads (which usually come as standard on all kits), and good tuning (you have to be patient) you can make any kit sound alright.
If you really want to play drums, then you definitely won't give up in 3 months because you'll stick at it even if your kit sounds bad.
But try to buy a full kit as just a kick snare and hat will really limit your creativity and what you can achieve.
Don't buy an electronic kit - they just aren't worth it